Over three and a half transformative days, Shelley Lewin and Sav Goldridge will weave together their 40 years of combined wisdom from working with individuals, couples, and relational pairs to facilitate profound relationship transformation. This intimate and immersive retreat is designed for growth-minded couples who are ready to deepen their connection, renew their relationship, and embark on a journey of self-discovery.
Limited to just six couples, the experience blends deep exploration of the Enneagram, intentional practices from Uncomplicated Love, and the wisdom of nature as a catalyst for meaningful connection.
With expert facilitation, couples will have the opportunity to break free from unhelpful relational patterns, heal emotional wounds, and consciously generate, renovate, or restore the quality of their partnership.
Through powerful group activities, personal breakthroughs, and shared experiences, participants will leave with not just renewed clarity and connection, but also practical tools to co-create a resilient, evolving, and empowered relationship that continues to thrive long after the retreat ends.
Personalized Enneagram Couple Assessment & Report Debrief
Each participant will complete a comprehensive Enneagram assessment, uncovering unique patterns of thinking, feeling, and behaviour. This process offers deep insight into your core motivations, strengths, and areas for growth. By distinguishing between instinctual behavioural patterns and cultivated self-awareness, couples can identify blind spots, address deep-rooted fears, and navigate stress with greater adaptability.
Expertise, coaching & facilitation of Enneagram by Sav
The Enneagram Couples Report is a sophisticated and highly personalized tool designed to unlock your relationship’s full potential. Because the Enneagram provides an exceptionally accurate lens into how we perceive and experience the world, it profoundly shapes the way we relate to one another.
Through the iEQ9 Enneagram personality test, you and your partner will gain fresh insight into how your personalities interact—leading to deeper empathy, enhanced communication, and a more connected, fulfilling partnership. The report helps couples see each other with renewed understanding, clarity, and appreciation, strengthening emotional bonds and transforming relational dynamics.
This one-of-a-kind, hyper-personalized 50-page report integrates both perspectives, revealing how your Enneagram profiles influence your relationship while offering practical development strategies to enhance connection and growth. Each couple will receive a guided debrief session with Sav Goldridge, ensuring you walk away with actionable insights and a resource you can reference for years to come.
Expertise, coaching & facilitation of Uncomplicated Love methodologies by Shelley
You cannot step into your full potential or make a meaningful impact in the world if you are consumed by a relationship that limits and distracts you. A healthy, functional relationship is expansive, nurturing, and dignified—it moves you forward, providing emotional support for you and your family. In contrast, a restrictive relationship holds you back, leaving emotional wounds that can ripple through generations.
Now, more than ever, the world needs each of us to show up fully—empowered, present, and engaged. When we cultivate healthy relationships, we create strong, resilient families that contribute to a planet in crisis.
For over two decades, Shelley Lewin has worked as The Relationship Architect, guiding couples toward lasting love by identifying the key ingredients of thriving partnerships. On this retreat, she shares a transformative approach to conscious relationships, redefining connection and providing a blueprint for a resilient, deeply fulfilling love. Her work blends proven relationship principles with practical strategies for building a partnership that not only survives but flourishes.
Expertise, coaching & facilitation of Uncomplicated Love methodologies by Shelley
Each participant will receive a signed copy of Uncomplicated Love—a step-by-step guide to removing the ‘complicated’ from your love life and creating a thriving, meaningful partnership. With Shelley’s expert insights, you’ll learn how to:
Distinguish between solvable and unsolvable challenges
Break free from power struggles and control dynamics
Use the art, science, and practices of resilient love to generate, renovate, or restore your relationship
Shelley’s teachings are grounded in both decades of coaching experience and her own 20-year marriage, making Uncomplicated Love a rare blend of deep relationship wisdom and real-world application. This book offers the tools to break through barriers to intimacy, transcend limiting relationship patterns, and build the kind of love you’ve always desired.
Mindfulness, Yoga & Quantum Manifestation sessions (facilitated by Danya Amolis)
During this retreat, you’ll be guided through a beautiful fusion of movement, healing, and soul nourishment with Danya. Experience the calming power of slow, mindful yoga, (this is optional) where breathwork and intentional movement help release tension and restore balance. Whether you’re an experienced practitioner or new to yoga, this practice will support you in grounding yourself and deepening your connection to the present moment.
You’ll also be introduced to the concepts of quantum manifestation—a powerful framework for shifting your reality and aligning with your deepest intentions. This session offers an opportunity to explore how thought, energy, and intention influence your path, providing practical tools to create meaningful change in your life and relationships.
Lunches at Castle Rock + barefoot beach walks + ocean water swims
At Castle Rock Beach House, nourishment is more than just a meal—it’s a holistic experience that honours the body and supports well-being. Our food philosophy is rooted in sustainability, care, and connection, with ingredients sourced from local suppliers who share our commitment to ethical, wholesome nourishment.
You’ll enjoy delicious, thoughtfully prepared meals, including egg dishes from our generous sponsor, Eggcellent Eggs, where the chickens are loved and blessed daily—ensuring that every bite is infused with the same intention and care that defines this retreat.
Entry + Nature experience at Cape Point Nature Reserve
The retreat culminates in a deeply intentional nature experience, designed to help couples integrate and embody the insights gained over the previous three days.
Set against the breathtaking landscape of Cape Point Nature Reserve, this experience invites couples to explore, reflect, and connect in a way that solidifies their transformation. Through purposeful, guided activities, you’ll have the opportunity to anchor your learnings, deepen your connection, and leave with a renewed sense of clarity, commitment, and presence.
This final chapter of the retreat is more than just a scenic outing—it’s a sacred space for reflection, embodiment, and lasting renewal.
At Castle Rock, we have perfected the art of the “day retreat”, curating a holistic, deeply intentional experience that allows you to disconnect from daily life and reset your mind, body, and soul.Each of our retreats is crafted with immense love and care, creating a space where like-minded individuals can reconnect with themselves and find support in a nurturing community. The Castle Rock Beach House is a marvel of design, envisioned by renowned architect Jo Noero in collaboration with visionary Jen Herman.
Built for ceremonies, dancing, and deep connection, the home carries a legacy of gathering and transformation—a legacy we are honoured to continue as Jen embarks on her own journey into old age. For architecture enthusiasts, the house has been featured in Architectural Digest and Wallpaper Magazine, offering much to admire.You are welcome to bookend each day in the natural beauty of Castle Rock’s pristine coastline. Take a barefoot beach walk, feel the earth beneath your feet, and reconnect with the elements. For those drawn to the water, the invigorating ocean swims offer a powerful sense of renewal—leaving you refreshed, energized, and deeply connected to yourself and your surroundings.
SAV GOLDRIDGE
What I Do
As a neurodivergent thinker and coach, I offer a distinct perspective by combining my expertise in leadership, emotional intelligence, and the transformative power of the Enneagram.
In addition to coaching, I specialize in supporting clients through grief, loss and trauma as a Bereavement Practitioner, Trauma-Informed Coach, Counsellor, and End-of-Life Practitioner.
Who I Work With
I’ve had the privilege of working globally, with clients across Africa, Europe, and the US, helping individuals and organizations navigate their most challenging transitions with strength and grace. To deepen self-awareness, emotional intelligence, and transformation in both personal and professional domains. This includes:
Leaders & Executives navigating high-performance environments, leadership challenges, and organizational dynamics while striving for authenticity, balance, and resilience.
Couples & Families to improve communication, strengthen relationships, and build deeper connections through greater self-understanding and emotional intelligence.
Teams & Organizations for alignment, collaboration, and cultural transformation, creating compassionate and resilient environments where individuals can thrive.
Individuals on a personal growth journey, including those who identify as neurodivergent, seeking clarity, purpose, and tools to thrive in a way that honors their unique ways of thinking and being.
Lecturing, Masterclasses, Speaker – masterclasses and applied leadership modules for business schools and organizations
My Mission:
To guide individuals, couples, leaders and teams on a journey of deep self-discovery and transformation. To empower people, whether in leadership, partnerships, or personal growth—to live with clarity, purpose, deeper connection and authentic self-expression.
SHELLEY LEWIN
I’m Shelley Lewin, a globally recognized expert in leadership and relationship development. Since 2006, I’ve conducted 5,000+international leadership coaching sessions and, for over two decades, empowered hundreds of couples to co-create conscious, fulfilling partnerships. I help leaders and couples master the art and science of human connection— transforming interactions into opportunities for trust, collaboration, and success. Through executive coaching, training, couples counselling, and immersive retreats, I provide practical yet transformative frameworks for deep, lasting change.
In addition to one-on-one and two-on-one coaching, I am a learning facilitator, trainer, and educator, designing and delivering masterclasses, workshops, and training programs that equip individuals and teams with the tools to build meaningful relationships and lead with clarity and awareness.
5,000+ International Leadership Coaching Sessions
20+ Years of Couples Counselling & Relationship Coaching
Learning Facilitator & Trainer | Masterclasses & Workshops
Author of Uncomplicated Love (Featured on TV, Radio, Print & Digital Media)
Founder, The Relationship Architect Coaching & Education
Facilitator of Relationship Renewal & Wellness Retreats
Who I Work With:
Fortune 100 executives & high-performing leaders seeking stronger team dynamics
Senior decision-makers navigating complex relationships in work and life
Growth-minded Couples committed to building conscious, thriving partnerships
My Mission:
To elevate the health and quality of relationships in both families and workplaces; shaping a future where we lead ourselves and each other with wisdom, compassion, and humanity.
R13 900 per person
(excl. accommodation) All tuition and Lunches included
Payment Plan available on Request
Dates & Times:
15, 16, 17 May: 09h00 to 17h30
18 May: 08h30 to 12h30
Spaces are limited!
For direct bookings or enquiries contact:
Sav Goldridge +27 83 689 3981
sav@coachsav.co.za
Shelley Lewin +27 82 829 7972
shelley@tracoaching.com
Travel & Accommodation Assistance
If you’re traveling from outside Cape Town, we’re happy to provide recommendations for places to stay to suit your needs.
For a range of accommodation options tailored to your budget, you can also reach out to Kirsty from Weddings Out of Africa at +27 82 922 3448 for expert guidance and seamless arrangements.
Let us know how we can support you in making your stay as comfortable and enjoyable as possible!
